I have started this blog several times and then deleted it. There is so much going on and my emotions are going crazy at times. So many changes in our lives. Not to mention that I have worked hard and that I am sore and tired.
Here are some of the changes around here:
First, Sean and Heather are gone with their children. They moved to Puerto Rico. Sean left last week and Heather and the children left this week. I have cried so much and just the thought of them leaving us was hard. We were hoping up until the last minute that it wouldn’t happen. But they left and they are excited. They are renting a house with a pool and I am sure they use it every minute they can. The LDS members in Puerto Rico have been so wonderful to them, welcomed them with open arms, took time off work to pick them up at the airport, donated or sold very cheaply all the furniture they could possible need. So they seem to be all set.
They did send a few boxes by mail, which was the least expensive way to get things there. The people in line at the post office were probably going crazy when they saw all the boxes. We just kept bringing them in. They were also totally loaded with things on the airplanes, such as a surf board, guitars, golf clubs and car seats, besides all the regular bags. And there were quite a few adventures associated with it all.
I am sure this will be a great experience for them. The children will learn Spanish and it is a new adventure. Their house here isn’t sold, yet, and they are trying to rent it out for now. We were there mowing the lawn and pulling weeds today. It was also a lot of work to get everything sent out, given away, sold etc. They worked at it for several months, but there was so much to do even at the last minute.
I will miss not having my three little grandchildren here. And I will miss the whole family at our Sunday dinners, playing games and Saturdays boating on the lake, and everything else. I am just glad we moved here to Utah when we did so that we got to have this time together. We still have other childen and grand children here but Sean and Heather and their children will be so missed by all of us. We will just have to make trips to Puerto Rico now and then.
Ed has done so well, eating right and losing weight and getting plenty of exercize. He looks great. He does get tired a lot and needs a good nap every day, but that is nothing new for him. He just transfered from Orem High Seminary to Lone Peak High Seminary, the school Linnea and Kayla go to and it is only a mile and a half from the house. So we have been very excited about that.
But then he had some medical tests done the other day and he came home all excited because he felt he did so well. The next day he went back for the results and the news were not good. He has some blockage in his heart. He should do it earlier, but he has an appointment for June 24 to have another angiogram. At that time, they will either put another stent or two in, if they can. If they can’t, because it is in a difficult spot, they will do open heart surgery. He has now been diagnosed with congestive heart failure. He was in shock. He is afraid to do anything too hard. But we do go for walks every day. He has really looked forward to going to Oceanside and stay in our new condo there for a few days, so we are going next week. He is also playing with the Stingers for our friend, Lori Wilson, for her retirement party. He is excited about that, too. We just don’t know what will happen with our Hawaii trip in July. Hopefully, everything will work out for the best. I know lots of people live a long time with heart problems and he may live a long time still.
My parents are here with us, still. They are planning on going back to Sweden to live for a while. They have lots of their things stored here in our basement and they are going through everything and getting rid of some things. We will miss them when they go, but we will keep a room or two for them here. My dad is working in the yard and has built a wall and stairs etc, for a great garden area. He loves to work and create things and we are benefiting.
I got to visit Eddy and Heather in Arizona for a few days. That was the first time I had visited them in their home. I had a great time. And I will go back again soon. Heather is expecting their first baby about Oct 1. Their home is great. Heather, especially, has decorated it so nicely. I also got to visit with Marta, my mother-in-law and see how she is doing. It was great to see her again, too. She lives very close to Eddy, so they see each other now and then.
A couple of weeks ago we drove to Oceanside to fix up our condo there. I mentioned it earlier. Ed just missed the beach so much that when the opportunity knocked, he bought a small condo. My mom and I worked on it. Lots of cleaning, lots of decorating, lots of fixing things. Danny and his Swedish girl friend, Natalia, was with us, too, but since it was her first time in California, there was plenty of other things for them to do. The condo will be a place where we and our children can go any time and enjoy the beach and the nice weather and of course visit friends. We furnished it and we have the necessary items there to be comfortable.
Danny left for Sweden the day before Sean left for Puerto Rico. Danny is planning on staying in Sweden until Aug 6. He went to Sebastian’s wedding, and he is planning on visiting lots of family over there. He also has Natalia, whom he met online, that he is visiting. She is a cute LDS Chilean girl from Uddevalla, Sweden. She was here for a month and then they both left for Sweden. We’ll see what happens there. It is a little quieter here without Danny and we miss him. Linnea is enjoying not having to share a car or a bathroom with anybody. Danny worked hard learning Swedish and I hope he is learning lots more over there. Natalia speaks Spanish, too, so they have three languages to choose from.
Linnea is done with school, and all of the grandchildren, too. Before school ended, Linnea found out that she made the chamber choir at the school for next year, so she is very excited about that. She also got her first job. It is a new restaurant that will open soon and she will work as a waitress. I just don’t know how she will do everything this summer. She is one of the stake youth leaders for girls camp, she is going to EFY later in the summer, and she wants to go to Oceanside and also to Hawaii if we go. And she is busy with karate and their exhibition team. She is growing up. Only one year left of high school.
Aaron had shoulder surgery and his shoulder is quite immovable, and he is in the middle of taking his CPA tests. I know he will be so excited to be done with the tests.
Lisa did quite well her first year of school. Not easy with a broken leg and trying to take care of five children. I am very proud of her that she did not give up. Her Danny is not living at home again. I am glad we live close by.
I am sure I forgot lots of things that have happened but I am getting tired.
Ed wanted to go camping last night, but to make things easier, we just put the tent up in the back yard and Ed and I slept in it. Lisa and her kids slept in the trailer. We live in such a beautiful place and have the mountains right behind our house. We also have a fire pit in the back yard to enjoy any time. We did notice that the birds are sure loud in the morning. And Ed discovered that his air mattress didn’t hold air. We are sleeping in our bed tonight.